Valentine’s Day can be more than just flowers and chocolate. It can be an opportunity to escape the ordinary and reconnect with your special someone in an unforgettable place. From candlelit suites to secluded hideaways designed for intimacy, choosing the right place to stay can transform a romantic getaway from pleasant to truly magical.
That’s where expert insight makes all the difference. Drawing on decades of experience bringing people together (and holding a Guinness World Record as the “world’s most expensive matchmaker”), Orly Lapin of Orly the Matchmaker, knows exactly what sparks connection and keeps romance. Whether you’re celebrating a new love, rekindling a long-term romance, or planning a surprise that will be remembered for years, Orly uses her eye for atmosphere, privacy, and those small details that make hearts flutter, in her suggestions of places to enhance your Valentine’s Day.
These destinations are chosen with one goal in mind: creating moments that deepen bonds. We’ve spoken to Orly to curate a list of Valentine’s Day stays that go beyond luxury to deliver genuine emotional impact.
Set on the emerald hills of Koh Samui, overlooking the Gulf of Thailand, Four Seasons Resort Koh Samui offers couples a secluded island sanctuary where romance and reconnection unfold effortlessly. Oceanfront villas and private residences with infinity pools provide total privacy, while Valentine’s Day is elevated through intimate experiences. Drift along calm waters on a private sunset cruise aboard a 60-foot yacht ($5,419+), share an exclusive candlelit dinner by the sea with champagne and wine pairing ($734+ per couple), or indulge in Amore Al Fresco, a six-course dinner on the main beach accompanied by live music ($463+ per couple). Wellness moments include The Secret Night Ritual, a starlit beachfront spa journey for two ($1,148 per couple), or A Valentine’s Day Spa Affair, a couples’ massage with bathing ritual overlooking the Gulf ($447+ per couple). Every detail blends intimacy, nature, and unhurried luxury.
“For couples seeking a Valentine’s escape that feels both private and unforgettable, Four Seasons Koh Samui is the ultimate canvas for romance,” says Orly. “A cinematic canvas where each moment is crafted to deepen connection and create memories that linger long after the trip ends.”
Along the Ayung River, Mandapa, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve, offers a deeply romantic Valentine’s escape shaped by nature and ritual. With only 35 suites and 25 private pool villas, couples are presented with a holistic and immersive experience in an exquisite tropical landscape that honors Balinese customs. Couples can reconnect at the serene riverfront Mandapa Spa with a rose-infused wellness journey featuring a signature massage, soothing rituals, and a private Jacuzzi experience ($624 per couple). Evenings unfold at Kubu, where candlelit riverside dining celebrates Bali’s landscapes through locally sourced, artfully plated cuisine. Thoughtful wine pairings from Chile’s Casa Don Melchor and ingredients from nearby farms create an intimate ‘earth to heart’ dining story ($208 per person).
“Perfect for lovers seeking soulful luxury at the edge of the world, this dual experience creates a moment space where romance feels both intentional and effortlessly profound,” says Orly.
Designed as an adults-only retreat, the resort offers sweeping vineyard views, Mount Veeder sunsets, and a sense of intimacy that feels both cinematic and personal in Napa Valley. For Valentine’s Day, couples can indulge in the Ultimate Indulgence After Hours Spa Journey, a private three-hour experience with garden soak and steam, couples massage, sparkling wine, and dessert under the stars (Starting at $4,000 per couple). Romance continues at the Michelin-starred restaurant with a prix fixe Valentine’s dinner ($Three Courses $180 | Four Courses $205 per couple) or in-room dining served in a Le Creuset Dutch oven ($190 Wine Pairing | 160 per couple). Elegant accommodations with terraces, fireplaces, and soaking tubs complete an effortlessly intimate escape, allowing couples to retreat inward without ever feeling confined.
“For couples drawn to refined intimacy in the expanse of Napa Valley’s vineyards, Auberge du Soleil delivers a romantic retreat defined by sensual spa rituals, sunset views, and the kind of luxury that whispers,” says Orly.
In the heart of the Jardins, Emiliano São Paulo is an intimate urban sanctuary for couples seeking refined romance and understated luxury. Known for its discreet elegance, deeply personalized service, and serene atmosphere, they have designed an intentionally layered, immersive stay rather than a simple add-on. The hotel is especially appealing to couples who value privacy, comfort, and thoughtful details. To celebrate love, Emiliano offers a curated Romantic Experience (starting around BRL 5,000, approx $920), which includes Moët & Chandon Brut Champagne, artisan sweets, special in-room décor with candles and flowers, Emiliano breakfast served in-room, an aromatic bath, late check-out, and parking. Guests also enjoy spa privileges, including 10% off massages at Santapele Spa, while Cubo Suite guests receive an exclusive three-course romantic dinner served privately in the suite—creating space to fully disconnect and savor time together.
“For couples seeking a serene, city-centered retreat beyond the rich samba and gastronomic cultural heartbeat of the city, the calm atmosphere and intimate touches provided by the hotel create a space where only love can thrive,” said Orly.
Set at the tip of the Baja California peninsula, Las Ventanas al Paraíso, a Rosewood Resort, is where desert drama meets the Pacific and the Sea of Cortez. This resort elevates Valentine’s Day with a dedicated Director of Romance and a series of unforgettable experiences. Couples can dine in a dramatic canyon at twilight during the Desert Canyon Experience, complete with live music and fireworks, or retreat to a private beachfront Cabaña Romantic Experience adorned with rose petals, candlelight, and a 300-rose bouquet. Sleep Under the Stars invites stargazing on a candlelit rooftop terrace, while Omakase del Mar at Árbol offers an intimate, chef-led celebration of Baja bluefin tuna. With butler-serviced suites, many featuring balcony hot tubs, and indulgent wellness rituals for two, romance unfolds effortlessly at every turn.
“Widely regarded as one of the most romantic resorts in the world,” shares Orly, “Las Ventanas al Paraíso sets the gold standard for romance, blending elevated service, seclusion, and unforgettable luxury experiences.”
This Valentine’s Day, Bahía del Duque in Tenerife sets the stage for a deeply romantic escape defined by cinematic settings, refined indulgence, and shared moments of well-being. Framed by the Atlantic Ocean, the hotel curates experiences that go beyond accommodation, weaving together gastronomy, spa rituals, and intimate oceanfront environments designed to be savoured slowly, together. Couples can enjoy a private sunset dinner at a panoramic viewpoint, where floral décor, bespoke menus, and optional live music transform dusk into an unforgettable evening. Mornings unfold just as indulgently with a floating brunch served in the private plunge pool of a villa—an elegant ritual of fresh, gourmet flavours enjoyed in total tranquillity. Wellbeing remains at the heart of the experience, with couples’ massages and access to the open-air thalassotherapy circuit at Bahía Wellness Retreat. The full experience is available from $3,700 for two guests, including a two-night stay in a one-bedroom villa with a private pool, with the option to personalize the journey through à la carte experiences.
“From hammam rituals for two, to romantic seaside dining, Bahía del Duque offers a thoughtfully layered celebration of love, privacy, and timeless luxury in beautiful Tenerife,” shares Orly. “A package carefully designed to celebrate love with luxury, privacy, and unforgettable moments.”
This Valentine’s season, Hotel Sans Souci Wien invites couples to experience Vienna through a lens of romance, elegance, and indulgence. Set in the heart of the city, the Romantic City Getaway Package (from € 849/couple) blends refined hospitality with intimate touches designed for shared moments. The experience includes a two-night stay either in a luxury room or junior suite, with daily champagne breakfast, romantic room décor, a sweet welcome with champagne, the use of the Sans Souci Spa for the entire duration of the stay, and more. Romance continues on Valentine’s Day with a Gala Dinner at Veranda Brasserie & Bar, featuring a four-course menu, a champagne aperitif, and curated wine pairing (€159/person). External guests can enjoy Sans Souci Romance by booking a Couple’s Day Package, combining a four-hour wellness retreat with either breakfast or a champagne tasting (from €220/couple).
“This effortlessly romantic escape in the heart of Vienna allows couples to be surrounded by serenity and style, in one of the most romantic capital cities in Europe,” said Orly.
